The Cornerstone

Friends, when you build a house, you need a sturdy foundation to ensure longevity and stability within that construction. What is your life built upon? What is your relationship with a spouse, a friend, a co-worker built upon? 
I don't wish to liken everything back to love, but let's look at something quickly. The divorce rate is over 50% in this country. Most folks aren't even worrying with getting married these days. In fact, countless people within the church are filing for divorce. What are we building these relationships on? 

Here is the humble opinion of this writer. Relationships are not being built on the Cornerstone. It has been often that a marriage rooted in the love of God is similar to a triangle. The closer that the husband and wife draw closer to God, the closer they draw to each other. From past experience, I can tell you that without God, that marriage is hard-pressed to succeed. 
When a faucet breaks in the house, you don't go out and buy a new home, do you? No, you go to the source and fix the problem. Any relationship needs to be built upon God's love. Tough times will come in friendships, courtships, and marriage. But as we close out this "month of love," remember this. "Love is patient." I will let you draw your conclusion to these thoughts. 
I truly believe that someone needed to hear this. It is my prayer that this is somehow a blessing to you.

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